Ep. 12 - Learn To Call Judgement

To Everyone, especially artists 👩‍🎨
​Here is your weekly, witty inspiration to stay sane in a crazy world💋😇
A THREAD -

Welcome Back To The Conversation. Calling judgement on something is seeing something that’s wrong for exactly what it is and identifying as such. This could include but is not limited to shitty behavior, toxic patterns, a hunch, an attitude or an emotion.


Whatever it is… calling judgment on it is directly describing what it is and then determining what needs to happen after hitting the bullseye on what’s wrong. Sometimes, you have to just address something instead of “letting it slide”.


There are a variety of reasons we tend to let things slide. However, when it comes to things that disrupt your peace or hinders personal progress, you devalue yourself by ignoring your true feelings and not calling judgement on a person, place or thing.


Not calling judgement creates a slippery slope that makes it open season on your happiness or peace of mind. That’s no good! Sometimes you have to stop something before it picks up momentum and creates chaos like a fire.


When you first notice a tiny flame, not taking action to put out the fire… gives it more time to get oxygen and build momentum. Just like a fire, you cannot give toxicity any leeway to build momentum.


I had chinese food yesterday and my fortune cookie 🥠 said “You Are Never Too Old To Learn Something New”. First of all, it’s a fact and second of all, I like that quote very much!!


So your takeaway for this week to stay sane in this crazy world is to remember “You are never too old to learn something new”. From the moment I read that on the fortune cookie, I seriously have been thinking of ways to be open to new things / including doing familiar things in NEW WAYS.


If I’m familiar with the way things work and I don’t like my results with it, then I’m gonna try it one more time in a new way. This also applies to deep self work we may need to do.


When it comes to being social, I struggle to interact with perceived nonsense. Simply put, I just have low tolerance for goofy shit. It creates an irritation within me. What I’ve learned to do is fill the awkwardness with something funny to lighten the mood.


However, sometimes goofy things that stem from toxicity and reoccur need to be directly addressed. Because I previously entertained it or calmed the waters, I’ve communicated that I’m cool with the toxicity when really I’m not.


This doesn’t always have to be negative though. Sometimes we deny ourselves bliss by blocking and limiting ourselves out of fear of the unknown. So be kinder to yourself and remember “you are never too old to learn new things”.


Find the courage to go after the things and visit the places that bring you joy, even if “you don’t know how to do it”. Nothing is stopping you from learning how to do it or acquiring new information to see a different way to do it.


We all are trying to cope with our day to day dealings. Just remember not to put everyone before your happiness and your peace, unless they’re your newborn or your toddler.


They’re exceptions cause they have to rely on you until they are able to tell strangers “Hell No, my mama or daddy said No”. We made it to another week in 2024. Here’s to more weeks and years beyond!
Love,
Your Favorite Behavioral Analyst Comedian and Happiness Cheerleader
AaronaTheVirgo


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